Saturday, January 1, 2011

Trust


Trust is a very interesting word. A lot of people like to use phrases like trust me but how often can the one saying it really hold true to the meaning of that word? When you trust someone it means that you rely on that person, place your faith in him and believe he can deliver.
The feeling one get when being trusted by others is good. There’s no one in this world which like to be doubt by others. However like all things its always easy to take than to give.
 Sometimes the word trust is used as an assurance or worst still a figure of speech. There is no real commitment in the words. So how does know when to trust someone and when not to? In my opinion it’s better that one doesn’t give out his trust too easily, a lot of people in this world are hiding behind mask, a lot of people are willing to say anything to get what they want and more often than not trusting others usually means hurting yourself.

Sometimes you tell someone something and you expect that you can trust them not to spread it to other but you find out at the end of the day that person is not trustworthy. It happens a lot and I can speak from experience. Of course sometimes the things the tell others they expect that person to be trustable and it continues to spread just because people trust others too easily especially when it doesn't involve themselves and they have nothing to lose. Its nice to have a listening ear whom is trustworthy its quite hard to find and if you have one. Treasure it.
It’s better to be cautious first and trust later. As the saying goes "there can be a knife behind every smile". Sometimes when you really believe in one person only to find out that whatever you know is purely it lie it breaks your sense of trust and you suddenly feel that no one is worth trusting.